Decentering Heteronormativity

You were never meant to live in fragments.

Colonization, patriarchy, and Eurocentric systems taught us to measure ourselves against impossible standards… to shrink, to perform, to silence our truths. We were told that our worth depended on respectability, on fitting into binaries, on denying our desires and our wholeness.

This journal is a tool of resistance and remembrance. Through powerful reflections, guided exercises, and affirmations, it invites you to unlearn colonial scripts and reclaim the fullness of who you are. Each section explores how systems like heteronormativity, patriarchy, and cisnormativity shape our most intimate lives and offers pathways back to authenticity, joy, and liberation.

This is not about perfection. It’s about gathering the pieces that shame, silence, and oppression tried to scatter, and remembering that you have always been whole.

Reclaim your voice. Reclaim your body. Reclaim your wholeness.