Decentering Men, Reclaiming Self

You were never too much, sis. Decentering Men, Reclaiming Self is a reflection journal for women who are ready to stop shrinking, performing, and over-functioning in the name of being chosen. This isn’t about finding the right man. It’s about remembering who you are when you stop revolving around them. Through real talk, powerful prompts, and no-fluff self-examination, this journal helps you: Unlearn the belief that your worth depends on desirability Identify the emotional labor, people-pleasing, and pick-me patterns that have drained you Reclaim your standards, boundaries, and self-devotion Explore the freedom, fullness, and peace of choosing yourself—without guilt Whether you're single, dating, healing, or done altogether, this journal is not about becoming harder to get. It’s about becoming unavailable to anyone who requires your self-betrayal. You don’t need to be chosen. You need to come home to yourself.